I set my alarm for 4.30 today because that's my usual wake-up-time when I start 6.30. But now that I'm awake I realise kid's not home and I don't have to get her ready, so I could have slept 45 minutes more.
In a decentralised social media it makes sense to host yourself. That's what we decided to do. This instance is run by two nerds, mostly for the why not of it. Feel free to join, and we'll hit you up with an "Hi, who are you?".